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Many a times, we act in haste and repent in leisure
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, and hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I’m sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "But when are my fingers going to grow back?" Many a times, we act in haste and repent in leisure.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience/temper with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired... Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever. Emotional management begins by stopping to act impulsively and starting to think patiently. Have a Great Week ahead...
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Positive Attitude
Hi Friends! I read this interesting article from the internet. I thought to share this article. Though some of u people would have already read it. The artcile continues as.....
A boy decided to study judo despite the fact that he had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident. The boy began lessons with an old Japanese judo master. The boy was doing well, so he couldn't understand why, after three months of training the master had taught him only one move. "Sensei," the boy finally said, "Shouldn't I be learning more moves?" "This is the only move you know, but this is the only move you'll ever need to know," the sensei replied. Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy kept training
Several months later, the sensei took the boy to his first tournament. Surprising himself, the boy easily won his first two matches. The third match proved to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent became impatient and charged; the boy deftly used his one move to win the match. Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals. This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger, and more experienced. For a while, the boy appeared to be overmatched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee called a time-out. He was about to stop the match when the sensei intervened.
"No," the sensei insisted, "Let him continue." Soon after the match resumed, his opponent made a critical mistake: he dropped his guard. Instantly, the boy used his move to pin him. The boy had won the match and the tournament. He was the champion. On the way home, the boy and sensei reviewed every move in each and every match. Then the boy summoned the courage to ask what was really on his mind. "Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one move?" "You won for two reasons," the sensei answered. "First, you've almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. And second, the only known defense for that move is for your opponent to grab your left arm." The boy's biggest weakness had become his biggest strength.
"Sometimes we feel that we have certain weaknesses and we blame god, the circumstances and our self for it but we never know that our weakness can become our strength one day.
Each of us is Special and Important,
So Never think you have any Weakness,
Never think of Pride or Pain,
Just Live your Life to its fullest and
Extract the best out of it!"
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Birth Centenary Celebrations of the Martyr
Saare Jahan se acha, Hindustan hamara…
Let us salute the martyr
BORN: Sept. 27, 1907, Punjab, India
1930: Threw bombs in Central Assembly Hall, protesting on imposing severe measures like the Trades Disputes Bill by the Britishers. Deliberately courted arrest refusing to run away from the scene
1930: Went on 115 days hunger strike to protest the inhuman treatment of fellow-political prisoners by jail authorities.
1930: Along with Sukh Dev and Raj Guru, he was awarded the death sentence.
Died: Hanged in the early hours of March 23, 1931.
Cremated at: The banks of Sutlej in Ferozepur, Punjab
The birthday of Bhagat Singh-27th September should be declared as "National Youth Day'. It would also mean to acknowledge the role of different revolutionary movements in fighting for the freedom of the country from colonial yoke. Also the youth of the country need to be filled with patriotic fervor, which is possible only by making them feel as the builders of free nation. This feeling in youth can only be instilled through the ideas of supreme symbol of Indian revolutionary freedom struggle-Bhagat Singh.
The Birth Centenary celebrations of the Martyr begins from today.
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Try to be non-judgmental and look beyond the obvious...
Imagine you are at an Airport. While you're waiting for your flight, you notice a kiosk selling cookies. You buy a box, put them in your traveling bag and then you patiently search for an available seat so you can sit down and enjoy your cookies. Finally, you find a seat next to a gentleman. You reach down into your traveling bag and pull out your box of cookies.As you do so, you notice that the gentleman starts watching you intensely.He stares as you open the box and his eyes follow your hand as you pick up the cookie and bring it to your mouth. Just then he reaches over and takes one of your cookies from the box, and eats it! You're more than a little surprised at this. Actually, you're at a loss for words. Not only does he take one cookie,but also he alternates with you. For every one cookie you take, he takes one.
Now, what's your immediate impression of this guy?
Crazy?Greedy?He's got some nerve? Can you imagine the words you might use to describe this man to your associates back at the office? Meanwhile, you both continue eating the cookies until there's just one left. To your surprise, the man reaches over and takes it. But then he does something unexpected.
He breaks it in half, and gives half to you. After he's finished with his half he gets up, and without a word, he leaves. You think to yourself, "Did this really happen?" You're left sitting there dumbfounded and still hungry. So you go back to the kiosk and buy another box of cookies. You then return to your seat and begin opening your new box of cookies when you glance down into your traveling bag. Sitting there in your bag is your original box of cookies - still unopened. Only then do you realize that when you reached down earlier, you had reached into the other man's bag, and grabbed his box of cookies by mistake. Now what do you think of the man? Generous? Tolerant? You've just experienced a profound paradigm shift. You're seeing things from a new point of view. Is it time to change your point of view?
Moral... Many a times, we are clouded by our own instincts and predispositions. These hamper our relationship with our peers, subordinates and superiors. Try to be non-judgmental and look beyond the obvious.
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